The Foundation of Effective Communication

In his powerful leadership book, The Fifth Discipline, Peter Senge describes a skillful discussion as one where team members balance advocating one’s point of view with inquiring, understanding, and incorporating other perspectives. This requires both confidence in self-expression and the sincere belief that our best solutions come from collaborative understanding and decision making. Unfortunately, we often approach listening in a passive mode, like a spectator sport, just waiting for the other person to quit talking so we can say what we want to say.  In fact, most of our interpersonal conflict with others can be traced to the fact that we tend to work harder at speaking then we do at listening.

In this course we will look at eight different listening skills that improve understanding among team members and also help team members to jointly design solutions. Participants will develop not only the skills of effective listening but also the mindset of collaborative intention.

Learning Objectives:

  • Learn eight listening skills that improve your understanding and let other people know that you are truly listening
  • Identify personal filters that block true understanding
  • Become aware of personal behaviors that make it difficult for other people to provide you with accurate information
  • Develop the ability to avoid distractions and consciously focus on understanding
  • Apply the skill of empathy and active listening to others
  • Learn how to ask powerful questions that increase your ability to connect and deepen your understanding
  • Balance advocating your point of view with collaborative intention
  • Increase your ability to accurately reflect the needs and interests of others
  • Improve your ability to use active listening as a tool to effectively collaborate and jointly design solutions
  • Use Action Learning as a tool to both problem identify and problem solve in a collaborative and inclusive way